Sunday, October 13, 2019

The Delmar Rest Stop


For a number of years in the 1980s Rep. Carroll Cordrey pushed for a 1.9 million dollar tourist center to build in Delmar.  By 1985 the dream had been reduced to a $50,000 rest stop with picnic tables and a couple portable restrooms.  Built about two miles north of Delmar in a wooded section, it gave travelers a chance to pull off the road, refresh themselves, let the kids run for bit, and maybe car pools would park their car there.
As is often said “no good deed should go unpunished” and so it was with the Delmar rest stop.  Within a couple of years it was being used for drug deals, sex solicitation, homosexual men would park and hang out waiting for a pickup, the wooded area was being used for public sex.  The Delaware State Police were often called to it. 
About 1993 a fence was put up to the entranceway and the rest stop was closed. 

Sunday Dinner at Wright's Grill 1950

1950 Wright's Grill

1979 Jay green and Ron Wilkosz

1979 Jay Green and Ron Wilkosz

Saturday, October 12, 2019

1991 Mar-Del Watermelon Queen Contestants

Kim Littleton and Dawn Disharoon Delmar

Friday, October 11, 2019

Warner Lee Wright & Bros Cantaloupes


A 1927 Delmar Delaware High School Flag

Last night at the Delmar Historical and Arts Society meeting our President Alan Whitley was showing us some of the items member Diana Young donated to the Historical Society from her late husband's collection.  Alan is holding a School flag from the Delmar High School Delaware that was used in 1927.  He explained that until 1929 the Delaware school colors were Maroon and Gold and in 1929 they switched over to Orange and Blue. 

Thursday, October 10, 2019

Recording Shack-Ups in the Federal Census


Article 1, section 2 of the Constitution calls for an “enumeration” to be made of the populace.   The purpose of the enumeration or census was to calculate how many representatives from a state were allowed in the House of Representatives. 

“Representatives and direct Taxes shall be apportioned among the several States which may be included within this Union, according to their respective Numbers, which shall be determined by adding to the whole Number of free Persons, including those bound to Service for a Term of Years, and excluding Indians not taxed, three fifths of all other Persons. The actual Enumeration shall be made within three Years after the first Meeting of the Congress of the United States, and within every subsequent Term of ten Years, in such Manner as they shall by Law direct. The Number of Representatives shall not exceed one for every thirty Thousand, but each State shall have at Least one Representative; and until such enumeration shall be made, the State of New Hampshire shall be entitled to chuse three, Massachusetts eight, Rhode-Island and Providence Plantations one, Connecticut five, New-York six, New Jersey four, Pennsylvania eight, Delaware one, Maryland six, Virginia ten, North Carolina five, South Carolina five, and Georgia three. When vacancies happen in the Representation from any State, the Executive Authority”

The 1790 census simply recorded the name of head of household and the number of people in that household and the county they were in.  It asked for very little information beyond that.   The 1850 census was the first to record the names of all the people in the household, plus their age, occupation, and state or country they were born in.  The census was moving away from simply recording how many people were in a state.  In 1870 the questions asked were;  Names,Age,Sex,Color,Profession,Value of Real Estate, Value of Personal Estate, Place of Birth (State, Territory, Country), Father's Birthplace, Mother's Birthplace, If born within the year, state month, If married within the year, state month, Attended School within the Year (Y/N), Cannot Read (Y/N), Cannot Write (Y/N), Deaf & dumb, blind, insane, idiotic, pauper, or convict.  Finally in the 1880 census they asked for who was the head of the household and for each person in that household record their relationship to the head of the household, as wife, son, daughter, boarder, servant etc. Obviously unexplained relationships existed that did not fit the normal relationships.


Portrait of Ira Eldredge with his three wives: Nancy Black Eldredge, Hannah Mariah Savage Eldredge, and Helvig Marie Andersen Eldredge.

People of the opposite sex living together without benefit of marriage (unlawful cohabitation, shack-ups)  have been going on forever.  In 1880 there were still legal reasons for not being married, mainly race based marriages or miscegenation not recognized by the state and Mormons and their practice of polygamy. The census taker however had to come up with a explanation to fill out the form however.  Happily they asked who ever said they were head of household and accepted whatever they were told.   

Usually the way it was recorded in the census was the man was the head of the household, his son and daughter living at home were recorded as his son and daughter.  The woman he was living with was recorded as a boarder, her sons and daughters were recorded as boarders.  If it was a white man living with a black woman instead of boarder she was recorded as a servant.  Obviously there are a lot of variations in the description recorded. 

In the 1970s the census bureau developed the term POSSLQ standing for "person of opposite sex sharing living quarters” .  It was used in the 1980 census. 

as an update to this post let me mention the Mormons in the 1880 census which asked for the relationship of each person in the household to the head of the household.  

Below is the census page of Angus Munn Cannon (1834-1915) which shows his three wives.  they are listed as wives and shows who was first wife, 2nd wife etc.  



He would add a couple more wives after the census and it will come as no surprise that he had over twenty children.  Of interest is the 2nd wife Annie Amanda Mousley Cannon (1836-1905) and 1st wife Sarah Mariah Mousley Cannon (1828-1912) .  They are sisters and they were both from Delaware (Centerville).  They were daughters of Titus Mousley and Ann McNenmy Mousley.  The mousley family would be part of a wagon train that arrived in Salt Lake City.  Sarah and Annie would marry on the same day in 1858  to Angus.  Angus, who was a civil engineer, was sent with his family to a new community called Dixie in Utah.  Dixie would be named St George and you have to wonder if it was just a coincidence or did his two Delaware wives influence the naming of St George.  The whole story of traveling west and their life is of much interest.